With the dimension of family economics going through a sea change, a majority of men today prefer a working wife. Apart from contributing financially to a marriage, working women can relate to their husband in a better way as they also have to go through similar grilling at their workplace. A recent survey also claims that majority of men have no issues in sharing the title of breadwinner with their better half.
Amit Bajpai, sales and marketing manager says, “Especially in metros, where the standard of living is so high, a man would like to have a helping hand. Moreover, a working wife would understand the work pressure you are facing; you can talk to her about your work related problems. I think the working population has become more smart and sharp with the passage of time, as they have to deal with unique situations everyday.”
Model Manpreet Brar also thinks that metrosexual men prefer a working partner. “Generally, the mindset of a working woman is completely different from a house wife and she shares a better understanding with her man. Double income is another advantage. Obviously, with more earnings, you can have a better quality of life. In a situation where a guy decides to set up his own business or plans to study further post marriage, having an earning partner is a great help as she can take over the role of the primary earner in the family,” Manpreet added.
Changing economic realities have changed the attitude of masses. Men are no longer bothered with the fact that their partner has a heftier pay packet than their own.
Television actor Manish Goel says, “I really respect those women who are primary earners in their families and their husbands should be proud of them. Family is a vehicle with two wheels, one on both sides and its great if a couple can strike a balance. My wife is working for past 15 years. In our industry, we have hectic schedules and strange timings. As Poonam and I are in the same profession she understands the situation completely and does not crib about it. And the best part is that you get expensive gifts. Poonam always gives me something pricey on my birthday, which she knows I am planning to buy from long!”
New age couples do not think that the spouse who makes more money has more say in family, financial and other matters. Today men are not seeking somebody to dominate; they need a partner who can help them in making better decisions.
Anjali Sharama, a public relation executive says, “Right from our day to day expenses to long term investments my husband discusses everything with me as we have same priorities and understands the situation completely. He acknowledges my opinion and I really appreciate it. Marriage is certainly not about exercising the power; it’s about taking the right decision that is beneficial for the family. It is always better to seek advice from your partner because your spouse is the only one who can give you an unbiased suggestion.”
At the same time, we can’t forget that this lifestyle has increased the pressure on women. They really have to work in double shifts to strike a balance between work and home. Though it does affect one’s married life but there is always a way out.
Ajay Raina, lawyer says, “I got married last year and after a few months of our marriage, my wife started working. I think our relationship has enhanced since then. As both of us stay in office for eight-ten hours in a day, we value the time that we get to spend with each other. I don’t mind stepping into her shoes and cooking or cleaning sometimes. Moreover, I always try to make weekends very special for her.”
It is not only about spending time, it’s about spending quality time together. A relationship doesn’t depend on seeing each other but on the understanding, love and the bond you share.
Actor Rahul Dev discloses, “I spend half of my day with my make up man but I don’t have that zing with him. I have to travel a lot because of my work; still we try to keep that spark alive. I do several things at a time just to take out time for my family. If I am working till ten in night, I call up my wife and tell her that I will have dinner with her.”
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